ok ok back to basics

best article about the worthlessness of marriage ever.

aefirpo: This article is like all my rage at the modern institute of marraige, cynical postmodern/post-feminist/post-capitalist American culture and child-rearing all written down and laid out before me.

Getting ready to write part two of Stupid Relationship Tricks.

and i loooove my life

Good Things

My shipment of Sex Mints came in. The lousy gas station had stopped selling them, but I can get them off teh interweb for $2 apiece if I buy in bulk, which totally beats their price anyways.

Steve kicked me off the internet briefly last night so we could talk.

Yet another relationship rant. And before you ask, no, I don't see anything wrong with bashing polyamory and bashing monogamy. At least not the way I described it.

Today I am wearing shoes without laces or socks. This is a very good thing.

I had made a great 80s mix apparently. First 3 songs are "Hazy Shade of Winter," "Under the Milky Way Tonight," and "It's a Sin."

I missed the vernal equinox, but apparently the sun is fighting fiercely against it; we've had only semi-cloudy if not outright sunny days since Saturday ended.

I accidentally brought my mp3 CD with Exile in Guyville on it. That is to say, I didn't do it on purpose, but it's good.

some more depressing thoughts

- last year steve said that the guy I was crazy for wasn't for me, that I needed a "passionate" man. well, i'm still waiting goddammit. (not that he wasn't passionate, just not about me. I literally have not dated a guy passionate about me in years. I almost said "a decade" but I'm not quite that old yet. Eight years.)

- I've realized that in many ways Seattle is my own personal hell. I mean, it's a city with a very high geekboy:girl ratio, but none of them are aggressive enough for me. "Water, water, everywhere..."