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lauralhlead-in* dude i don't comment on SO Much shit on my friends' list. People would HATE me if I told them what I really thought of them and how they handle their shit.
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trixiefirecat i have the problem where i don't really care if they hate me because WHAT KIND OF FRIEND STANDS BY AND LETS THE BEHAVE LIKE ASSHOLES? not that there's anything wrong with it, but my better friends can take a smackdown once in awhile, that's why i smack them...
my problem is, when i see people complain and ask for help and then take no action to help themselves, i start to dislike them. and then i get resentful and think "fuckers if i didn't know your damn problems in the first place, i wouldn't know how little you care about yourself to even do anything about them..." and that's the wrong thing too. and i can't expect people to do any differently. but I can do differently. i can learn from it. i can recognize these things sooner and not interact with them in the first place.
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trixiefirecat i have the problem where i don't really care if they hate me because WHAT KIND OF FRIEND STANDS BY AND LETS THE BEHAVE LIKE ASSHOLES? not that there's anything wrong with it, but my better friends can take a smackdown once in awhile, that's why i smack them...my problem is, when i see people complain and ask for help and then take no action to help themselves, i start to dislike them. and then i get resentful and think "fuckers if i didn't know your damn problems in the first place, i wouldn't know how little you care about yourself to even do anything about them..." and that's the wrong thing too. and i can't expect people to do any differently. but I can do differently. i can learn from it. i can recognize these things sooner and not interact with them in the first place.
*name removed to protect the guilty
