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lauralhThe basic point of my rants about relationships is as follows:
In the beginning of a relationship, infatuation kicks things off. This is true in any relationship. Even if your standards are so high that you think only Perfectly Compatible Beings will bring you there, it's um, not true. You only know so much about a person in the beginning, so, you know, there's no possibly way you know how compatible you are. After the initial infatuation fades, then you can be more sensible about these things.
So the basic point is, one should not base a relationship off an initial infatuation.
In the beginning of a relationship, infatuation kicks things off. This is true in any relationship. Even if your standards are so high that you think only Perfectly Compatible Beings will bring you there, it's um, not true. You only know so much about a person in the beginning, so, you know, there's no possibly way you know how compatible you are. After the initial infatuation fades, then you can be more sensible about these things.
So the basic point is, one should not base a relationship off an initial infatuation.
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Date: 2003-11-04 02:17 am (UTC)It's amazing how few people actually know this . . . and sometimes it seems like they're the girls that always end up wanting to date me.
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Date: 2003-11-04 07:36 am (UTC)What's your opinion of that?