enough with the slowcore

( another mix, this one is to get you rockin' out )

Had a pretty good time last night. Actually hanging out with Russians when you're at the Contour Russian Night makes things a little more interesting, especially when they're kind of young and pretty. Then we headed to Groovetech and had a decent time there, met up with Jade, danced lots and lots, finally headed back home for hot tubbin'. Had a total of six people in the hot tub, which I think is pretty much the limit of comfortability sans gropage. And we all split a bottle of wine. We were pimpin' it out. I called out "We are ROCKSTARS!" and everyone agreed. Didn't get to sleep till 8am.

god save the king of new orleans

This was going to be a comment in Jim's journal but I figured what the hell.

So I really don't think that "a kiss is just a kiss." I mean, to a certain extent I do, but I try to make it a rule not to kiss someone unless I actually want to sleep with them. And I don't mean in the "gee it would be nice to sleep with them" sense, I mean in the "I'm going to kiss them and it will lead to foreplay and it will lead to sex" sense.

The questions to me felt like a real sort of platonic-friends-leading-up-to-more thing. Like, you know, you watch TV with someone and then one day, oops, you kiss. Which I think is acceptable for people who are in high school and college, but at age 25 I don't want to fucking deal with that kind of ambiguity. You either want to be my friend or you want more. Either put out or shut up.

(SERIOUSLY what is up with guys over the age of 25 who won't make a goddamn move on a girl they're into? Can anyone tell me?)