I'm gonna shortcut the whole obsessive quote every last bit and reply line by line thing and get this done a lot more efficiently:
1. nobody said "omg you can never ever ever put your child in daycare. or get a babysitter. or anything." the problem is WAREHOUSING the kid, as in trying to avoid him or her for as much time as humanly possible.
2. get over your guilt. seriously, if you were any more defensive of your own parenting without admitting that's what you're defending, I think you'd burst a blood vessel.
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Date: 2005-06-02 10:44 pm (UTC)1. nobody said "omg you can never ever ever put your child in daycare. or get a babysitter. or anything." the problem is WAREHOUSING the kid, as in trying to avoid him or her for as much time as humanly possible.
2. get over your guilt. seriously, if you were any more defensive of your own parenting without admitting that's what you're defending, I think you'd burst a blood vessel.
that is all.