lauralh | in other news, my flogger arrived today

So I've been nattering alot about "aggressive" men and whatnot. But unfortunately there are different spheres in which one can be aggressive, and some I just don't tolerate. For simplicity's sake assume we're talking about male-female interpersonal interaction rather than say, office interactions or basic friendship things.

So in that realm we have two categories:
personally aggressive vs. sexually aggressive (ie, out the bedroom vs. in the bedroom)
initially aggressive vs. later trends of aggression

Now, some people are both personally aggressive and sexually aggressive, some people are both aggressive to start with and aggressive later. Or you know, not at all. But a lot of people are some combination. I dated a guy who was Personally, Sexually, and Later, but I totally had to make the Initial move.

My ideal is someone who's initially personally aggressive, later passive, and at least later sexually aggressive but preferably initially as well. Your mileage may vary.

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