friday five, why not

1. Do you believe in love at first sight?
No. Hell no. Not in the fucking least. Not even if we're being totally literal and saying two people have corresponded for years without seeing what each other looked like till they finally met.

2. Would you ever want to change your gender - at least for a day?
YOU MEAN SEX NOT GENDER. Yes, but only a day.

3. What drives you craziest about your partner?
When he's in spaz mode and comes to bed (not to sleep, mind) at 4am, and I get jolted awake, and he thinks this means it's ok to carry on a conversation with me.

4. Do you believe in kissing on the first date?
Yeah. But nothing much more unless it's the only first date.

5. Do you wish you had slept with more or fewer people?
Fewer, but not very strongly.

um what?

"There's simply an irreconcilable contradiction between feminism and femininity, two largely incompatible strategies women have adopted over the years to try to level the playing field with men...Heterosexuality always was the Achilles heel of feminism because the asymmetries involved usually took the form of adequacy for one sex, inadequacy for the other."

where to begin?

(no subject)

ooooh, more FEAR AND RESILIENCE!!! Sweet, awesome, rock on. "take the side of instrumental hip-hop that requires a soft, skilled touch to create and fuse it with elements of jazz, feed it through an MPC and sprinkle it with your favorite aural tricks from more abstract Radiohead or Sigur Ros tracks, and that's almost what Pedro's about. highly recommended." Someone else posted the Prefuse 73 remix a few weeks ago, I forget who, but here it is.

because i have no idea

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