got it made

Boudoir last night was actually pretty hopping. I was stoked. There was a band playing from 8-11 but the spillover crowd attracted a lot more people. Plus I'm thinking no clowns actually helped.

xamichee apparently keeps talking about me or to me while he's having sex. Well, at least someone is gettin' naked and thinking of me. Heyo.

So I was having a conversation about tact and rudeness, and one of the things repeated (that was rude and tactless) was "I only said those mean things to you because I don't respect you." Personally I think that's a terrible thing to say, even if it's true. There's only two excuses for saying mean things to someone. Number one is if you're angry and want to hurt them. It's not nice, ok, but it's a great polite excuse. Number two of course, is if it's funny.

hotcrab and I decided that the difference between "making love" and "fucking" basically is a sliding scale based on how much money was spent to get them into bed.