heh. I never really understood the point of "waiting." I mean, if someone was just in it for the sex, I wanted to figure it out right away.
and in fact, i dated* a guy once, with no sex, for two months, and we got along great, but once we started having sex it got really weird and we had to stop seeing each other.
I used to have this idea that that's just what people did. meet, go on a few dates, then have sex after a bit (couple of weeks? a month?). and thats not far from the truth, really, but at one point a new person I was dating said basically "if two people like each other and want to fuck, what's the hold-up?" and I realized there really wasn't one. that you dont really need any rules like 90 days or the 4th date or whatever. just feel it out as it were.
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and in fact, i dated* a guy once, with no sex, for two months, and we got along great, but once we started having sex it got really weird and we had to stop seeing each other.
*i mean, hung out alone a lot.
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