lauralh: (wisdom tooth bandit)
Laural Hill ([personal profile] lauralh) wrote2009-08-04 12:17 am

leading from the nose

By some accident of fate, I have ended up with the best boyfriend in the world. Initially I didn't really understand this, I thought he was just some sucker who would have been nice to any girl who took him home and talked to him every day. This was not too far off the mark, but unlike the previous bitches, I thrived under his attention. Which is not to say I thought it was The Real Thing, but that's just because I don't believe in the kind of love that lasts forever. But we've been going on over 5 years now, and even though things haven't always been awesome, the relationship was nearly always the best thing in either of our lives. Because at our worst, we can always have fun together.

I honestly hated the idea of camping before I met Reg, but he turned me into a convert. Granted Washington State helped; the West Coast of America is the best argument for camping in general, and WA specifically has so much variation within a few hundred miles that it's simply astonishing. And there's nothing like kissing your sweetheart by an open fire as you watch the sunset blaze over mountains. Or something like that. Nature is not to be beaten into submission here, but gently acceded to.

Except for mosquitos, those sad bastards should all drop dead right now.

Reg grew up camping all around this state, and his enthusiasm as he talks about these trips and the countryside are contagious. I always liked mountains and beaches - because I never knew what those were really growing up in Louisiana - but those are obvious gimmes. He's even brought me around to the gentle slopes of harsh eastern Washington. The grandeur is more subtle but after hearing him talk, you can't believe you ever disliked it. And the smell of sage is never far. We haven't yet gone to the northeastern corner, but he talks of it fondly, and is quite serious about wanting to retire to a small solar-powered cabin out there. With a lake, and an otter, and a duck.

And me.

[identity profile] infinite-hiatus.livejournal.com 2009-08-04 11:50 am (UTC)(link)
Aw, so fucking cute. :-)

I want a remote, solar powered cabin too. If you get one, I can be your creepy neighbor living a few miles down the road.

[identity profile] jimbojones.livejournal.com 2009-08-04 01:14 pm (UTC)(link)
Awwwww! :)

[identity profile] gfrancie.livejournal.com 2009-08-04 02:44 pm (UTC)(link)
This is a great post.

[identity profile] suxdonut.livejournal.com 2009-08-04 03:04 pm (UTC)(link)
haha its not just fate, you guys are like a yin yang pea pod. it took love to open my goth eyes to camping, but that present cant be beat.

[identity profile] xaotica.livejournal.com 2009-08-04 03:42 pm (UTC)(link)

I can't even imagine 5 years. Awww

[identity profile] verybadlady.livejournal.com 2009-08-04 03:42 pm (UTC)(link)
um, AND ME. That is where I want to retire too. Except I want goats and dogs.

[identity profile] herbaliser.livejournal.com 2009-08-04 06:24 pm (UTC)(link)
oh yeah well I figured that went without saying. Goats for cheese making!!

[identity profile] herbaliser.livejournal.com 2009-08-04 06:24 pm (UTC)(link)
Noted.

[identity profile] chris.livejournal.com 2009-08-04 08:25 pm (UTC)(link)
solar-powered cabins are the new hotness. I've wanted to setup something like that for a while. maybe on the peninsula though.

[identity profile] herbaliser.livejournal.com 2009-08-04 11:17 pm (UTC)(link)
the peninsula known for no sunshine?

[identity profile] joblessmusician.livejournal.com 2009-08-05 03:57 am (UTC)(link)
:)

i'm speaking for me, really.

[identity profile] quent.livejournal.com 2009-08-05 05:07 pm (UTC)(link)
we want to be your neighbors, when we all get old and country too!

Re: i'm speaking for me, really.

[identity profile] herbaliser.livejournal.com 2009-08-05 09:45 pm (UTC)(link)
sounds good to me